My binge on humble pie!

Case #1: We asked Reuben what he wanted for his birthday, and this is what he asked for. I didn't buy him any boots this summer because I thought he could just wear his sandals and we'd get some in the fall. Nope. It's all about boots this summer! So...when we were in the store, they had one pair in his size but they weren't a match. One was a darker brown. I thought, "some idiots bought the wrong ones!" We ended up buying a bigger size so he could put them on and take them off himself. THEN I went shopping- found some *FABULOUS* shoes, love them- but the boys were getting tired of shopping so I hurried to check out (have to make myself some excuse!) I bought 2 different sizes! 7 1/2 and 8. Like I said...humble pie.

Case #2:

I recently read the blog about the woman whose baby drowned in their hot tub. This was really hard for me. I was grateful they forgave themselves, but when they said they didn't feel like they were to blame- I very much dissagreed. I told Jorge I must need to read my scriptures more, but I felt like I had a hard heart and was somewhat angry at this random woman. While I still feel like they were to blame, even though I know it was "meant to be" meaning Heavenly Father knows what mistakes we will make before we make them- my rude awakening was this: Reuben ate ALL of Jace's teething tablets. Ok, not all- I had given Jace 3, so he actually ate all 122! (I was putting Jace down for his morning nap, and he tried waking up so I stayed with him for a few more minutes.) I about died. I called and come to find out, a baby can actually eat 6 whole bottles! before feeling a negative side effect, which is: dry mouth. Holy cow huh? I screamed, "Reuben, this is medicine- not candy!" and when I found out he was fine, I cried. Sobbed. Uncontrollably. I asked him, "do you know how much I love you?" He said, "yeah." and brought a blankie and wiped my tears. If anything had happened to him, it would have been 100% my fault. So it didn't really change my mind about things, but it did open my eyes. Also, it made me question the overall effectiveness of the teething tablets. The belladonna didn't sedate him and the caffeine didn't seem to do much either and trust me- he didn't leave my side for over 24 hours.

Lesson learned: I'm still pretty opinionated, but I might need to work harder at keeping those opinions to myself because before too long, I will be making the same mistakes...myself.

My 3 year old!

Reuben LOVED riding horses. We went to visit Jorge's cousin, Adrian, on Sunday and they were roping. Here is a pic of Adrian talking to his son, Ruben. And of course, my hot hubby and his son....Reuben. It was atleast 10 at night, so Reuben was getting tired but not about to let Jorge ride off without him. Sorry about the spots- with the lights and dust in the air- couldn't help it. I say that as if I'm so smart...but really I asked Jorge what was wrong- if I needed to return my *NEW* camera because it wasn't taking good pictures. Good thing he's not an airhead- we would have felt funny going in the store and returning it!
This is a nightly ritual in our house. BULLRIDING. But this bull had had enough so Reuben was entertaining himself. The drool marks on Jorge's shirt are from Jace laughing so hard when he was getting bucked off!

Reuben loves to be a cowboy and sing. He made this song up all by himself, and said it was okay if I filmed him. If you'd like to sing along..."The cow says moo, moo, moo!" We hate nicknames, but can't help but think -kenny chesney- when he's wearing his boots with shorts...and singing. His Grandpa Maurice plays the guitar and Reuben is the only grandchild who asks for the performance, will sit and listen the entire time, and give a standing ovation. He is growing up so fast. In reference to my post about his birthday...the other day I asked him to massage my "peet" and he said, "no mommy. it's fffffffeet!" so true, but so sad. He is such a cutie, and helps me a lot with Jace. I was folding laundry yesterday and heard Reuben in the hall, "Jace....no coloring on the wall." So calm. And sure enough- Jace! Don't worry- I only allow washables and love clorox wipes. No harm done. Doesn't it seem like just yesterday he was born! I love him.

My 1 year old!

Jace is my clingy baby, and I love it- most days- he loves me! This day he had to be in the bathroom while I did my hair and make-up. I know it wasn't very sanitary but he was happy and it was cute! Bytheway- he looks EXACTLY how Jorge did as a kid- he's definitely a handsome guy!
He has to follow me....and this day I was going between the laundry room, bathroom, and bedroom and he gave up! He does this often, people (Becky) think my kids are weird because they just get tired and find a place to crash. I love how he just stuck his little tushie up in the air. And yes, I realize I did an aweful job at making the bed that day. I love my little guy soooo much! He's started to feed himself (or insist on trying) and he shakes his head to say no and bounces his entire body up and down to say yes. He is for sure a quiet one, but I'll tell him to do something or get something and he understands everything. I'm positive he's thinking, "why talk- Reuben does enough for the both of us?!"

Don't believe it!

You Are Esmerelda!

Mysterious and passionate. You are a survivor. Even though life has swung you some difficult situations you have a strong intuition that gets you through. Also, you have the capacity to sympathize and relate to a variety of different people.

Ok, so that's what it said- but I didn't even LIKE her! or the movie that much. But I did answer honestly, even though I had to admit to glaring at a pitiful wench. I aspire to be the one to take the person aside and have an intelligent little chat- but actually, that was a high school question and I answered as if I was still in high school. Sad, I know- but I am a different person now...maybe I'll take the quiz again.....

You Are Snow White!

Pure and trusting. You are a gentle soul who can get along with just about anyone. Everyone you meet instantly falls in love with you. How can they resist? You have a pure, lovable nature that's irresistable. Just don't trust everyone who comes across your path.

Oh my...now I'm Cinderella! While I think it's better than Esme...still! I looked at all the possible results and I would say I'm most like Ariel....Yes, I don't know what it really says- but here is my rendition:

You are Ariel! Beautiful (& humble) and willing to do anything for love (trade voice for legs), while still holding on to your strong family ties. You're willing to step into an unknown world (for her: humans; for me: Mexico) to be with your one true love (Jorge, DUH!).

Actually I think it said I was Esmerelda because I picked turquoise and dancing. Then I was Snow White because I picked WHITE and dancing. Sorry, couldn't give dancing up even though I still enjoy the ritzy food. Take the quiz! it's fun? or more like, it's interesting!

Fun Stuff- thanks Nancy!

Create your own family sticker graphic at pYzam.com

BFFs

I haven't blogged in awhile because my camera died and blogging without pictures is hard for me...BUT since Amy's been on my case to blog...here's one ABOUT HER but without pics, sorry. Look at her blog for that. On Monday we got together after MANY years. We hadn't seen each other since I was still single and she only had 1 kiddo. Now, fyi- she has 3 SUPER CUTE kiddos. They are so beautiful and fun to be around. Time flew by, and we just talked and let the kids play. She is a wonderful mom, has a beautiful home, and is such a great friend. It was so fun to chat. AND TALK ABOUT ALL THE REST OF YOU! jk. Amy got married in 99, right after Allison, Amanda, and I graduated high school- yes, we thought she was crazy but she was also crazy in love. She was my example and still is. LOVE YA AMY!

Mommy, I go see basketball!

We've been in Phoenix for a couple of weeks, relaxing and staying out of the line of fire. We're visiting Jorge's sister, Glenda, her husband and 2 girls. They are super cute and I'm glad the boys are having time to get to know their cousins. We went to a Diamondbacks' game last night and had a lot of fun. Alexia (almost 4) didn't know what to shout when the crowd was cheering so she relied on what she knew...."SWIPER NO SWIPING!" Soooo adorable! All day Reuben had told me, "mommy, I go see basketball" and I would tell him it's actually a baseball game, so after the game he kept repeating "beisbol" in his cute little spanish accent. I gave him a piggy back ride from the stadium to the parking lot and half way there I asked him if he wanted to walk....to which he replied "No mommy. I'm riding!" Smart kid. Tomorrow's his birthday and I can't believe he's turning 3! Here are a few things you may not know about him:

.he wants his "peet" massaged while he's watching bullriding.

.he sings his abc song like this: "abcdefg-hij-cake- cow...horsey....."

.he loves the guitar his tia tori got for him and makes you play an imaginary one to accompany.

.he doesn't know I often see him run and give Jace a hug or rub his little bald head.

.he insists on being a cowboy, and wears his cowboy hat daily even with shorts and sandals.

.ok, this one isn't necessarily about him..more about us, but we are SO grateful that he can drive us crazy, smile, laugh, run, scream and bring so much joy into our lives!